Jul 14, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#52): Before I Go…An advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do In case you hadn’t heard, I am moving this column over to my Substack newsletter, Let Your Life Speak. Today is my last weekly Walk With Me column here on Medium. …Dating Advice5 min readDating Advice5 min read
Jul 7, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#51): Parenting, The RemixAn advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do In case you hadn’t heard, I am moving this column over to my Substack newsletter, Let Your Life Speak, and rolling it into the work I do over there. Please, join me! I’ll still be re-posting…Parenting Advice7 min readParenting Advice7 min read
Jun 30, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#50): An InvitationAn advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do Dear Asha, Questions are all well and good, but I’m kind of in the market for answers. Have you got any of those? QK Dear QK, Short answer, sorry to say: No. Longer answer: Oh, honey…Life Lessons4 min readLife Lessons4 min read
Jun 23, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#49): Riding the Ghost TrainAn advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do Dear Asha, You write a lot about integrity and “living into our wholeness”, but how does that actually work? I mean, the “living into wholeness” part. Is that even really possible? …Integrity4 min readIntegrity4 min read
Jun 16, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#48): Grief Requires CourageAn advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do Dear Friends, I woke up this morning in the firm grip of grief, and as is so often the way with me, I happened upon an article that spoke directly to my condition. This NPR piece…Grief2 min readGrief2 min read
Jun 9, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#47): It’s Not The Question That’s ImportantAn advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do Dear Asha, I have been trying to write you a question for months now, but I can’t figure out what it is exactly. The words won’t come. When I try to write them down I know…Listening5 min readListening5 min read
Jun 2, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#46): Talking About Gender Transitionan advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do Dear Asha, People ask me how a family member’s gender-expression transition is going from time to time. But I don’t actually know; in as much as I feel like that’s personal, medical stuff and I would…Transgender5 min readTransgender5 min read
May 26, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#45): How Will We Survive Each Other?an advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do Dear Asha, Six years ago, my daughter was born in early November, a red-headed, left-handed Scorpio. She was supposed to be born in early January, so she was premature — in the NICU and subsequently had…Parenting Advice7 min readParenting Advice7 min read
May 19, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#44): Who Do I Want To Be?an advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do Dear Asha, Lockdown, shelter in place, stay at home, mask up, social distance, physical distance — 6 feet, 3 feet. Work from home. School on Zoom. Collective and personal grief. Has it been awful ? Yes…Post Pandemic Life5 min readPost Pandemic Life5 min read
May 12, 2021Member-onlyWalk With Me (#43): Let Him FlyAn advice column for folks who don’t like to be told what to do Dear Asha, My son is about to graduate from high school (God willing). He is an amazing and unusual kid in many ways. He’s had to grow up faster than most, living in two homes since…Parenting5 min readParenting5 min read
